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About Robin Cockrell

Robin Cockrell has been a member since October 20th 2014, and has created 64 posts from scratch.

Robin Cockrell's Bio

In 2009 after a rough break up, I started a community for women having all sorts of issues with men and relationships. I grew this community to over 5000 women and had a website and forum for women only. In 2014 I sold the website and decided to take this knowledge of women and share it with men. Texting Tips for men was born. I hope to be taking this site deeper and sharing so much more than just texting tips and help men to really connect with women to build deeper relationships. I am also an affiliate marketer and that being said, I may earn a small commission on any links in this site. I have to eat! I do this full time. I also teach others how to make money online as well and you can also find me on a site called Pajama Affiliates. Should you need personal coaching, or extra help or have questions about your situation, you can comment on any post here or contact me via email provided. robinincarolina at yahoo.

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Will He Forget Me in No Contact?

 

This is a woman’s biggest fear about no contact after a break up.  Will he forget me in no contact.  Second only to the fear of him finding someone else.

First allow me to point out the obvious.  If a man forgets you, he is not the man for you.  Love won’t survive if it’s one sided.

Going no contact will not make a man forget you.  In fact, he may begin to wonder if you forgot him.

If you are fresh out of a breakup, you are in a state of emotion.  Any communication you have from a place of emotion is likely to come across to him as needy and desperate.

It’s not attractive and often it just gives him confirmation that he made the right choice in leaving you.

What No Contact Does for You

No contact, though tough and painful, gives you time to get yourself under control.  Time to let your emotions calm.  A woman in control of herself is alluring.

You want to be calm and collected for when there is contact.  This is close to impossible when you are an emotional wreck and struggling to hold back the tears.

No contact also gives you time to process and reflect. It’s not a time to worry if he will forget you.

No Contact Can Make Him Miss You

In the days and weeks following a breakup a man will and feel and remember the negative  things in your relationship.  If you are in constant contact, you just enforce the negatives in his mind.

He needs this space to let the negatives fade.  The do fade and lose their strong hold on him if you just give him time.  He will notice your absence and the will start remembering the positive.

If you contact him during this processing time, you will undo everything that you have accomplished and the process will have to start all over.

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He Broke Up With You, Respect That

When a man breaks up with you, it’s important to believe him and accept this.  To push and push for a second chance shows him you do not respect the boundary that he just put down.  On a subconscious level, it also shows him you really don’t care about what he wants, it’s all about what you want.

When you go no contact after a break up, you are not only giving him space, but showing respect for his decision.  Men crave respect so give it to him.

Why Contact Pushes Him Away Further

will he forget me if i go no contactMost when they initiate contact after a breakup are seeking answers, crying, and bleeding emotions all over a man.

Stalking, crying, begging, guilting and bleeding your emotions all over him will not put you back in his good graces.

These things just make him feel bad.  A man is not going to want a woman back that makes him feel bad.  He may pity her, but he will not be desiring her.

He will begin to feel like he is responsible for you well being and the truth is, no one is responsible for this but you.  Being responsible for the happiness of another is a big burden to carry and feels like a prison cell.

Use this no contact time to nurture and take care of yourself. 

So next time you worry if will he forget me in no contact, think about how you want him to remember you.

You want him to remember you as a woman in control of herself.  Not a crying sobbing needy mess.  The former is a powerful memory that will work in your favor.

 

 

 

 

 

 

What Makes a Man Fall In Love – This May Shock You!

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Men Fall In Love in Your Absence

If you think it’s the things you do that makes a man fall in love, think again. It’s often what you don’t do that hooks him.

Women get left all the time by men. The last words they hear are something like this. “I am not ready for a relationship”, or “It’s not you, it’s me”. Months go by and you hear through the grapevine that he is in a relationship or engaged. Wow, what just happened? What did she have that you don’t?

I have heard this phrase before and I now completely understand it. Men fall in love with your absence. This is so very true. For a man to fall in love, he has to think about you, a lot. If you are with him every free moment, well he might be enjoying your company, but he isn’t really thinking about you.

By thinking about you, I mean as in longing. He longs to be with you. He replays the time you had together over and over in his mind. He can’t long to be with you unless you are absent at times. Have you ever had a man say to you, ” I can’t stop thinking about you”. If you have, I bet he said it over the phone when you weren’t in his presence. This is the start of a man feeling an emotional attraction for you.

Absence Can Strengthen a Bond

If you are dating a man and you are giving him most or all of your spare time, if you are always waiting by the phone or putting your life on hold in areas for him, you might want to rethink this. While it works in the beginning or it seems, it isn’t what causes a man to attach to you. It isn’t what propels him to commitment.

What makes a man fall in love is the emotional attraction he feels for you. For this attraction to grow, you have to offer up some resistance. He needs time to miss you, think about you, recall memories. These are the things that play on his emotions, because face it, men aren’t emotional creature by nature.

Men don’t do like we do and start imagining a life with us after the first few dates. It’s a fact, they just don’t. You have to trigger his imagination to go to work for you and you don’t do this by being up his behind every minute you can. You do this by not being with him every minute you can. Let him wonder what you are doing when you aren’t with him, even if you are just washing your hair. Imagination is what makes a man fall in love, this is where it all starts.

Men need to miss you to fall in love!

When you are not in his presence, he has the opportunity to miss you.  When a man misses you, he feels pain.  He wants to get rid of that pain.

What this does is activate his hunter instinct. Men really do love the thrill of the hunt. They love competition, even if he is just competing with your girlfriends. They get busy trying to make you fall in love with them, and as a result, they fall in love with you. Men rarely fall in love with the woman who offered up no resistance. She is the one they eventually leave behind.

So this being said, when you are dating, it is critical to not put your stuff at his place. Don’t see him every day. Once, twice at most a week is fine. Don’t act like his girlfriend until he has shown you he is willing to invest into your happiness. Have a life outside of him and be excited about it. This is incredibly attractive to men and is what makes a man fall in love.

How To Text With the Guy You Like and Not Blow it!

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When you meet a guy you like, you naturally want to talk with him.  You want things to progress and you try to think of things that you can text him about to make contact.  If you want to know how to text with a guy you like, read this before you send another message please.  the key word here is “with”, it has to be mutual interaction.

I write posts here for men as well as women.  One thing you need to know here before you text that guy you like is this.  One of the most searched terms for my website is “she texts me too much”.  Texting the guy you like too much is going to turn him off.  Being too eager is not a good thing.

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When texting a guy, less is more, believe me.  He is the man, give him space to lead.  If you are the one doing the texting, or he doesn’t text you first, you are in essence chasing him.  Chasing men never works.  It comes across as needy or worse, desperate.  There is zero challenge for him and it requires zero effort on his part.

The best Way to Text with a Guy You Like

texting a guy you likeThe best way to text a guy you like is to simply reply enthusiastically when he texts you.  In other words, you simply answer his texts.  If he isn’t texting, then you shouldn’t be texting him.  If he isn’t texting, he probably isn’t interested or either you have already killed his attraction with your over eagerness by texting him.  Or maybe he is just busy.

Your job when it comes to texting guys is to simply observe.  You can get a good feel of his level of interest if you simply observe his texting habits.  Is he texting your regularly?  Does he text you at all?  Does he make an effort to see you?  You do not want to show a higher level of interest than he does.  Seriously, you don’t.

You can be flirty and fun when he texts you.  Be open and receptive when answering a guy that you like when texting with him.  No pushing, like asking when will you see him, when will he text you again or requesting that he text you again.  Leaning back is how to text a guy you like.

If you want to text him a good rule to follow is 80/20.  You text him 20% for the 80% that he texts you. Anything more and you are over selling yourself.

If you are thinking of texting him good morning every day would be sweet, think again.  If he isn’t texting you good morning, don’t take this task on yourself.  You would be investing into a guy that is not texting you.  It’s not going to make you more appealing.

How Often Should You Text a Guy You Like

This is so tough for most women.  They want to jump and move the relationship forward.  Guys simply don’t think like this.  They are more in the moment and usually in the beginning aren’t even thinking of a relationship.  Be careful here, getting ahead of the guy is what causes them to pull away and lose interest.  You don’t want to do that. Learn now how to text and call guys the right way, the way that doesn’t send them rolling their eyes and running for the hills.

You just relax and live your fabulous life.  I know when you like a guy a lot it’s tough not to try to steer the relationship, but seriously if he likes you back you won’t need to send a text to remind him you are alive.  Give him space and allow him to be the man and pursue you and you are much more likely to get what you want than you would be chasing after him texting him too much.

Why Does He Ignore My Texts – The Reality!

he is ignoring my textsI have had many women come to me with this problem.  They want to know why does he ignore my texts. Most of them make excuses for these guys instead of facing the reality of the situation.  A guy that ignores your texts is ignoring you.

Now this can happen in different circumstances.  It could be after a spat or a break up.  If this is the case and you keep texting and he isn’t answering your texts, you have to stop texting him.  He will only see you as a love sick school girl if you keep it up.  If he isn’t answering, let him be for a while, let him calm down.  If you keep texting him, he is probably scared to answer you at this point because he knows he will be drilled.

He is ignoring my testsIf you are just starting to date, in the first few weeks and he is ignoring your texts, well he hasn’t made you a priority yet and I must ask why are you texting him in the first place.  If a man isn’t texting you, you shouldn’t be texting him, period.  It upsets the balance.  Guys instinctively prefer to chase (they don’t admit this) and you texting him when he isn’t texting you means you are the one doing the chasing.

If he is not texting your first and you are the one texting him first all the time, you are leading the relationship and operating in some serious masculine energy.

So if you find yourself wondering why does he ignore my texts, I can already tell you what you are doing wrong.  If he is ignoring then he isn’t texting.  If he isn’t texting and you are, you are trying to control where the relationship is going. You are trying to get a result that may not align with him.  Regardless of why you think he should text you, if he is ignoring your texts, he is ignoring you.

Men ignore us often when they aren’t on the same page as we are in the relationship.  They don’t want to actually tell you this, so they do avoidance instead.  Then when they do reply and you let them back in, you have just accepted him on his terms, not yours.  It will never really grow like this.  You have to have boundaries, but you have to not shove them down his throat.

When he ignores your texts, you aren’t a priority.  If you keep on texting, it shows him he is a priority.  In other words, you are investing your time and energy into a man that is not investing it into you.  You have already made him a priority, while to him, you are only an option.  Chances are good he is going to disappear sooner or later if he does this already.

 

What To Do When He Ignores Your Texts

why does he ignore my textsI can make this really simple.  Nothing.  When he ignores your texts, you do nothing.  You mirror his level of interest!  You silence will speak way louder than it will if you keep sending texts.  You see when you keep texting a man that isn’t texting you, you show a lack of self control.  Let me tell you, self control is very intriguing, not to mention sexy as hell to men.

When you are texting a man who is not texting you,  you are over investing into a man who is probably not thinking about you all that much.  If he was thinking about you and wanted to spend time with you, he would be texting you and you would not be here wondering why does he ignore my texts.

Men have become used to anxious women with unrealistic expectations.  Stop texting him if he is not texting you and stand out!

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Why Did He Stop Texting All of a Sudden- The Truth!

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If you have a guy who you are interested in and you have been texting back and forth and suddenly he stops texting, what is going on? Why did he stop texting? Did you do something wrong? Did he meet someone else?  Has he just lost interest or is he busy? Is he pulling away for good?

Texting is the top means of communication in the dating world now. We live in a society of instant gratification and we are all so busy. Texting is the answer. It’s a very simple and fast way to communicate with your love interests.

If you have been seeing or texting a guy and he all of a sudden stops, you are left wondering what is going on. It could be a number of things. The most likely explanation though is this. You just didn’t have his interest level high enough or you came on too strong too fast.  You got ahead of him. Guys are known for doing the slow fade. He could have met someone else, but chances are it’s just his level of attraction.

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What to do When He Stops Texting!

why guys stop textingWhen a guy stops texting, you do nothing.  Seriously nothing.  If he has stopped texting he is investing no effort into you.  Your job is to mirror his level of investment.  You don’t invest into a guy who is not investing into you, seriously, just don’t do it.  It’s groveling behavior and that is just not attractive.  Even sitting around wondering why he stopped texting all of a sudden is investing useless emotional energy. If a guy stops texting or never texts you first, it’s your sign to pull back.

One thing you must not do when a guy stops texting you is to text him numerous times asking why. Judge a man by his action or lack of actions. You can measure a man’s interest level by his actions. If he is texting you everyday, he is more than likely interested. If he only responds to your texts and doesn’t initiate on his own, he isn’t really interested.

So if he isn’t really interested and you continue to initiate texts what do you think happens? You kill his attraction, that is what happens. This is one of the main reasons why guys stop texting and pull away.. There is no challenge when the woman does all the initiating. Have you ever not really been all that interested in a guy and he kept texting and calling? Did it make you like him more? I doubt it. It made you roll your eyes when your phone rang. There is no need to do his job for him.

If you are wondering why he stopped texting, more than likely, it could be a lost cause. A guy who is into a woman isn’t going to leave her alone long. He won’t turn into a guy who just stops texting. He fears someone else may come along and snatch her up. If he stopped texting, chances are he isn’t worried about this with you.  If you continue to try and raise up this dead horse, your value goes down in his eyes.

Another thing that often happens with these guys that stop texting once you go silent, stop contacting him is this. They resurface down the road to test the waters. They want to see if you are still on that back burner. Be prepared for this. This could be your chance to reignite his interests. It happens if you know the proper skills and techniques.


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